Some wise words are time tested - and should be followed blindly even if they follow no logic sometimes . one among them apart from "Never hire or offer your expertise to your family or friends " is - "never offer your services or expertise to your loved ones or friends , whether its transactional in nature or free gyaan . I have witnessed its results first hand - if something goes wrong , the results are sour relationships. Where the affected has to hide his anger and discontent , so as not to spoil the relationship. And that simmering anger poisons everything slowly but surely..Its best to not let in friends and family unless they are the core or are indispensable for practical reasons ...unless one is sure.. that , the hired family member has the capability to be able to be practical...and not be emotional...but then..back to square one..relationships are bound and blinded by emotions..that's its nature...so..just stay away..period..no questions asked..!! No answers sought !!!
Agreed. I faced this problem in past.
Some wise words are time tested - and should be followed blindly even if they follow no logic sometimes . one among them apart from "Never hire or offer your expertise to your family or friends " is - "never offer your services or expertise to your loved ones or friends , whether its transactional in nature or free gyaan . I have witnessed its results first hand - if something goes wrong , the results are sour relationships. Where the affected has to hide his anger and discontent , so as not to spoil the relationship. And that simmering anger poisons everything slowly but surely..Its best to not let in friends and family unless they are the core or are indispensable for practical reasons ...unless one is sure.. that , the hired family member has the capability to be able to be practical...and not be emotional...but then..back to square one..relationships are bound and blinded by emotions..that's its nature...so..just stay away..period..no questions asked..!! No answers sought !!!